with MissT. Communication is the key word for growing ups... Though the thing is you've got let them honestly feel that they can open up with you on the issues under the Sun. It would be a little lighter for a Father to have an open communication with the Son, and likewise the Mother for the Daughter.

And the "spice" to that open communication with the kids is... Parents to spend more quality time with them. Yes, all of us Parents wish to see our Children growing older and becoming more matured to face every challenges that they meet in Life. Best wishes Moon65. :o)