Prepare Simple Food at home thats Blessing for you, party at hotels and paying nice good amount dosent counts for u and in ur final destinity. Keep arrangment for guest to have dua(i.e.. Dua..what every u feel difficulty in ur life like health of parents) before iftiyar And dont avoid Prayers(Magrib, Ishan and Taraviya). I feel comfortable to communicate these thing, if I am wrong Sorry abt it....