as what i told you, he informed his mom before we got married and there was bad thing happened to her, during that time i proved to myself that he really wanted to tell his family about me but now he is so scare to let them know because of what had happened before.

the reason why i make this forum is to know if there are couple who had been married a foriegner and their life become happy and they live a normal  family life.  i am just asking your opinion and not absolutely to solve my problem. somethime its good to talk with someone who has an experience and mature person. but i think you are not. anyway thank you for your comment thinker bell.