@HDA ,

Yep, i can visualize what you are saying,

sure,that may happen .

But here many of them understands it wrongly when i talk about money......looks like they are thinking that i am coming here to save money for luxury life...Its not...I am making this move to clear my father deps... Even i can do that from INDIA, but it may take decades ..may be life time ..so just thought of coming there and clearing it in single short or as much i can before maa marriage ....Then i have to comeback and live my normal life in India....

Thats it...

Too add..
I am not a devoloper,
I Am a System admin ,into middleware administration & IBM AIX(UNIX)

I feel like i may get good exposure here ..bcos...In INDIA i was part of a team to handle things....But here i will be alone to manage stuffs...Were end to edn implementations will be done by me and maintained by me starting from DEv/UAT/PROD/ to COB

so i hope ..i may learn new things ..which may help me to move upwards..

Thanks a lot for your care..

-Ponraj K