In every marriage, times like these comes. No matter how perfect it seems, we always undergo such situations that will eventually make our relationship stronger (to one another and to ourselves). So if your husband comes home and you feel that he is distant, find time to console him by TALKING (not nagging) and making him feel that you are always ready to listen. Ask him how his day was. Most probably, he is feeling like that because he had too much pressure at work, or had a very bad day. It is our responsibility to lighten the mood. Of course at times we also undergo such pressure, but hey! at least we know we can handle it better than the guys ;) If you know what I mean? Prepare him a good dinner, or give him massage to relax him and then when you know he is relaxed, sit down and discuss what's happening to your marriage. We don't have to talk that much, just listen and you will understand things.. Good luck!
In every marriage, times like these comes. No matter how perfect it seems, we always undergo such situations that will eventually make our relationship stronger (to one another and to ourselves). So if your husband comes home and you feel that he is distant, find time to console him by TALKING (not nagging) and making him feel that you are always ready to listen. Ask him how his day was. Most probably, he is feeling like that because he had too much pressure at work, or had a very bad day. It is our responsibility to lighten the mood. Of course at times we also undergo such pressure, but hey! at least we know we can handle it better than the guys ;) If you know what I mean? Prepare him a good dinner, or give him massage to relax him and then when you know he is relaxed, sit down and discuss what's happening to your marriage. We don't have to talk that much, just listen and you will understand things.. Good luck!