their native dialect" frequently on the main forum, even if just for part of the post. To me this is rude and similar to when you are in a group with a common language between you but you choose to speak in a language that certain people don't know. I was raised to think this was rude. More importantly, this is distinctly against the forum rules so making excuses for it doesn't wash in my opinion.

I also hate the hijacking and chit chatting, which are also against the forum rules and I think those people should be warned and banned if they continue. It might be good just to have a thread for chit chatting that stays open all the time so the culprits will stop doing it on every thread they enter.

As for the Love threads, I hate them but unfortunately they are not against the rules. I wish there would be a forum opened for these pathetic lost souls so they would be put out of their misery.