I know that some Western men are hot for Asian women and think you are all subservient and sex-toys. What I am referring to is you calling nomerci a racist and saying that when anyone refers to cultural traits it is racist. That is what I meant by you playing the victim.

You stated:

"Discussing what happened to you is not racist, but pointing out the fact that only certain nationalities do it is."

And that is what I said is bollox.