thanx Tinkerbell.even thought i wrote it as a tale,it was my reality.n its very difficult to com out of it.coz my neighbors widow husband and the 2 sons still live in front of my house.wen i c them struggling alone without a mom to cook good food for them n to help them with their home work.its heart breaking.i cannot imagine myself in a situation like that.....life is full of surprises.good n bad.........