Dear BOJO,
I hear you. I was in the same situation once. I thought
it is the end of world. Not knowing how to cope up with the situation, one good friend suggested me to take long walks, socializing with friends and family. I was in turmoil for like a year. Then, a beautiful thing happened.
I was very lucky and married a beautiful, innocent girl who just took so much care that old one was out of my mind like a flash. Sometimes, I feel scared to think how my life would be if i married that old one.

Now, i am happily married with with 2 kids. A wife who takes great care and satiesfies my every need with great LOVE. U know, u have to love/marry somebody who loves you
rather than marrying somebody who does not love you.