Nic....some instead of getting numbed by noticing the void, just find other ways and means to fulfill that void and live happily....I am one of them...for me life is very simple...I dont want all the places to be a replica of each other...I just lose the fun and challenge to live then...and I never intend to make things change to how I want them to be when I also say I am a guest...a guest doesn't dictate terms, nor imposes his likes and dislikes...either he adjusts and accepts considering it as momentary or doesn't return.