Hey my wife is a full equal partner. She is a designer and she does what she wants to do and I do everything in my capacity to see that she is taken care of. I take her for client meetings, site inspections and help her with her bills and estimates, products, colors etc.

We are just talking about personal relationship where she has full freedom except she has that much control over me as I allow. So it works fine.

I care for her deeply and I am there for her 24/7