Doesn't really matter to me Happy. I've lived here in the 80's and 90's when there was "officially unofficial" dress codes and when people couldn't eat anything during Ramadan even in their houses and even supermarkets used to be closed at Ramadan, when the only shopping centre was " The Centre" . I can live with all that. But I hate their double standards and when they don't publish rule changes and create mass confusion instead.

If, when I get married, my wife doesn't like it, I'll leave. I like this place because it's been a home to me, but if you're not welcome then no point in trying to extend the stay.