and I quote you: "...the wife is here and she's my friend. she confided to me and asked some advise. she did what i told her. she make some secret investigations and talked to her husband what she knew. but naturally, boys will be boys...all he can say was "honey... were just friends and then turned back from her." i felt sorry for her. She is so worried that it might affect their marriage life..
i was thinking about this other girl? all the while she know that the guy is married, why then she kept on clinging with him... so disgusting...
---> Your friend did what you told her...what did you tell her exactly? Investigate, check his phone?
--->"Boys will be boys"...you're generalizing and made a conclusion about men (or boys) and your friend's husband.
As a friend, you should have consoled her, told her to be strong and trust her husband more....not give her ideas. Besides, you're SINGLE...how would you know and what don you know about married life? They're married...you're not.
Like I said earlier...whatever happens now to your friend and her husband...will be your fault. Just pray they won't get separated, coz if they do...you'll have that in your conscience.
and I quote you: "...the wife is here and she's my friend. she confided to me and asked some advise. she did what i told her. she make some secret investigations and talked to her husband what she knew. but naturally, boys will be boys...all he can say was "honey... were just friends and then turned back from her." i felt sorry for her. She is so worried that it might affect their marriage life..
i was thinking about this other girl? all the while she know that the guy is married, why then she kept on clinging with him... so disgusting...
---> Your friend did what you told her...what did you tell her exactly? Investigate, check his phone?
--->"Boys will be boys"...you're generalizing and made a conclusion about men (or boys) and your friend's husband.
As a friend, you should have consoled her, told her to be strong and trust her husband more....not give her ideas. Besides, you're SINGLE...how would you know and what don you know about married life? They're married...you're not.
Like I said earlier...whatever happens now to your friend and her husband...will be your fault. Just pray they won't get separated, coz if they do...you'll have that in your conscience.