An officemate came to me one morning teary-eyed and asked for help.
The night before, she accidentally opened her husband's mobile phone(they both have the same Nokia model N90) and saw/read text messages from our other female officemate. when she checked the call history, there were exchanges of calls from 2-3 weeks back.
She suspected that our officemate is having an affair with her husband. And she's devastated at the idea coz the girl in question was so close to her like a sister.
I told her this: Talk to her husband, tell him what she found and how bad/hurt/betrayed she felt and give her husband the chance to deny/admit it. If he (my friend) believe him, well and good but if she's not convinced, give the husband an choice: continue his friendship and lose his family OR try and save the marriage.
In my opinion: avoid getting involved with MARITAL ISSUES, especially if you're not MARRIED.
An officemate came to me one morning teary-eyed and asked for help.
The night before, she accidentally opened her husband's mobile phone(they both have the same Nokia model N90) and saw/read text messages from our other female officemate. when she checked the call history, there were exchanges of calls from 2-3 weeks back.
She suspected that our officemate is having an affair with her husband. And she's devastated at the idea coz the girl in question was so close to her like a sister.
I told her this: Talk to her husband, tell him what she found and how bad/hurt/betrayed she felt and give her husband the chance to deny/admit it. If he (my friend) believe him, well and good but if she's not convinced, give the husband an choice: continue his friendship and lose his family OR try and save the marriage.
In my opinion: avoid getting involved with MARITAL ISSUES, especially if you're not MARRIED.