well..maybe try to talk to ur husband first.,its ur right to express ur feeling,,,thats a woman instinc,,,
confirm to him whats bothering to ur mind cuz u will get sick thinking every time ur husband at work or arrive home late,,i remembered my best friend problem before,,,almost same situation as urs,,her husband cousin wants to call him also---"DAD"and she wants him to pick and drop to her office,,etc,,,which is so annoying...hayzzzzz....keep on praying medan...save ur family...goodluck!!!!

friends only!!!
abelle