may i know your real age?and how long your relatinoship now with your so called LOve one...bcos it really matters,based on your way of answering here some of it shows immaturity...sorry to say...anyway its your choice which ideas or advices from QL members you will take and you think will help...just small words,,,when a man really do love his woman,against all odds he will do everything just to be with her for life...