Look at it this way. I will do as you have suggested because most of it I do anyway including grocery to cleaning to doctor to ironing clothes to giving bath combing hair etc. Excepting for shaving of legs and cramps etc. All this because I love to be with her 24/7 and it all comes naturally.

But if you are going to have a irritated temperamental mate demanding your attention and personal service , then in-laws , then again friends and extended family---I would run away with my daughter

So credit has to be given and acknowledgement has to made
for the super women in our lives.

I do salute you gals