fellow compatriots(kabayans)?

I won't assume anything and I agree with drmana,I don't know the status of the guy's relationship with his wife. Maybe they are already separated and/or having separate lives already? who knows? maybe the OP could enlighten us on that part...hehehehe

For the girl(who happens to be the OP's friend)who announced (to her friends)that she's getting married to the guy(who is still MARRIED), she sure is brave enough to be "in the sideline" for this guy...LUCKY HIM.