lol guys... I thought this thread outlived its useful value yesterday and just to complete my obligation to respond to SS as agreed I would leisurely come back at a convenient time to say something more peaceful just as in some closing ceremony but then I see the celebrations are still on with lot of fireworks…:)

This thread would have been a nice thread if the poster came with a topic for discussion with an open mind, but what all of us felt all the way was confirmed in the following final words by poster:

'i have understood in many ways that it is pointless trying to correct something that i cannot change. so i am hereby abandoning all attempts....'

'and nothing any one of you have said had succeeded in shaking my ideals. i am sorry for your disappointments!'

Question is, did anybody say that this is wrong and needs to be corrected, did anybody ask for posters help to change. And I don’t think anybody tried to change the ideals of the poster….it was the poster who was on a mission to set things right thinking it is wrong, though by its own admittance it is a community specific issue to which the poster belongs.
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