ok ok i m serious
u should sit with him/her in a living room full of fragrance and a/c on and then discuss with him/her what are the shortcomings in the relation and where did we do our mistakes and bring ur children and ask them to do some acting to him/her and say "LOOK AT THEM D U WANT TO MAKE THEM SUFFER BCOZE OF UR SELFISHNESSS????"
he/she will fall on her/his knees and cry and i ll guarantee that she/he will stay with u happily ever after