but I advise you, give up.... no matter how much we try to explain to Khalid.... sorry I mean Straight Arrow, that denying something will cause attraction, he will keep copying and pasting the texts that talk about how women must not dress to temp men...

Its becoming more clear to me that men and women are not considered to have a mind of their own and they don't bother with free thinking, but rather follow the book like sheep....

I sometimes wonder why God even gave us a mind of our own if not to use it to decide to live our lives for him or for ourselves...

I like having freedom of choice - If given the choice of a sexy bikini or a pair of jeans, the jeans would win hands down - given the choice of having sex with a man that was my husband or not - I would chose a husband rather - but then, thats just me - I seem to think good things - and thats my choice:-)

If talking to a man means I want to sleep with him... best I stop having conversations with my colleagues, people I meet with regards to adopting animals from the shelter or even just my friends that really don't want anything from me... Best I hibernate in my flat and never come out for fear of meeting someone new that probably just want to "fornicate"

on second thoughts, I give up now! (proves my reasons for not discussing religion - doesn't it:-)

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