being a guy is tough bcoze:
he has to be the head of the family
"""""""""""""""""""""""" head of a tribe or clan
""""""""""""""""""""""""head of state or country
""""""""""""""""""""""""financially independed
"""""""""""""""""""'""""provider of a family
""""""""""""""""""""""""earn as soon as he finishes his education
""""""""""""""""""plan for future life
"""""""""""""""maintain family life and professional life