why the secret investigation? ladies, if you are not ready to know the truth and not ready to help your husband to get out of the problem, never touch his wallet, his cell phones and other personal things.

confronting him will just aggravate the situation. kill him with kindness. give him a very good reason to stop that secret thing. by doing so, you can save your family not just your marriage.

pretend you did not see anything... and move on with this killing with kindness.

advise your husband to use the lock for his cell also. it will save a lot of troubles.
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