demand that he TURNS OVER HIS SALARY to me every payday...lol

You see, living in...you share everything. Share footing the bills, the chores, he has his freedom as much as you have yours.

Another set-up of "living-together" is that a couple cohabits like husband and wife. Only problem is...if like you said, one fell out of love or some differences that the two could never agree on...THAT WOULD BE A DEAL-BREAKER