Obviously you don't come from their country so how can you judge what they do to survive?
I know many ladies who are here to support not only their children so that they might have food on the table, but also their parents, brothers and sisters who are too young to be working yet. One lady I know, lost her father due to not having enough money to leave him on a breathing machine...how horrible is that? To make a choice of letting your father live or die because of money? She had to make the decision to let him go...and he was conscious and coherent when she had to tell him. He understood. Same lady is here with her husband, working two jobs because she is putting her three oldest children through college so they can have a better life when they graduate.
As a man, you will never understand what sacrifices women are making for their children. Also...most of these ladies are leaving their children with either their parents or their relatives...so its not like they are abandoning them to strangers.
Today's world is so much more difficult for everyone, so why jump in and start berating these women who already have such a burden to bear and miss their children at the same time???
To you ladies in this situation...bless you....I get to see my two grown sons 4 times a year and even that's not enough for me. I can't even imagine what you are going through. Know that you are not alone and that others do with you the best in this bad situation.
If you pick up a starving dog and make him prosperous, he will not bite you; that is the main difference between a dog and man.
-Mark Twain-
Obviously you don't come from their country so how can you judge what they do to survive?
I know many ladies who are here to support not only their children so that they might have food on the table, but also their parents, brothers and sisters who are too young to be working yet. One lady I know, lost her father due to not having enough money to leave him on a breathing machine...how horrible is that? To make a choice of letting your father live or die because of money? She had to make the decision to let him go...and he was conscious and coherent when she had to tell him. He understood. Same lady is here with her husband, working two jobs because she is putting her three oldest children through college so they can have a better life when they graduate.
As a man, you will never understand what sacrifices women are making for their children. Also...most of these ladies are leaving their children with either their parents or their relatives...so its not like they are abandoning them to strangers.
Today's world is so much more difficult for everyone, so why jump in and start berating these women who already have such a burden to bear and miss their children at the same time???
To you ladies in this situation...bless you....I get to see my two grown sons 4 times a year and even that's not enough for me. I can't even imagine what you are going through. Know that you are not alone and that others do with you the best in this bad situation.
If you pick up a starving dog and make him prosperous, he will not bite you; that is the main difference between a dog and man.
-Mark Twain-