how does one consult Allah? And how are you supposed to know if Allah decides that this person is right for you?

Does he send a burning bush as a sign? Will it just 'feel right' to you in your gut so you know to proceed with things? Do you randomly open the Koran to a page and read what that page says and intuit what that means in regards to your question?

And if you later end up divorcing this person, does that mean that Allah was wrong? Or did you simply misinterpret his signal to you? Or was it a lesson that Allah gave you to be with this "wrong" person for a period of time to teach you something else?

"Most plain girls are virtuous because of the scarcity of opportunity to be otherwise."
-- Maya Angelou