this is being misconstrued or at least in my opinion. First off the only thing religion has do with this whole conversation is due to what is or isn't acceptable. As far as race, ethnicity etc. it doesn't matter to me if he is a Martian, American, Arab or another woman and it doesn't matter what country this takes place except once again acceptability. If this was a tryst from Boston to New York I would still be worried for the safety of this person especially nowadays and I think that it what concerns most people here... some of us just express ourselves differently.

It's so simple to be wise. Just think of something stupid to say and say the opposite