The general rule here is don't give your 100%trust to your maid/nanny because no matter how good you show and give to your maid/nanny they still do things that you cannot imagine they will do in return.Just like what happened to one maid/nanny in one compound in Dafna after ,all the good things that her employer show to her,she had the guts to allow her lover inside her room while her employer is out and doing that things that should not be happened.