They need to learn how to socialize. Cuddling them and holding them is part of that. However as was mentioned above, they all have their own personalities which you will notice down the road. I had one cat, which adopted me. Unfortunately she was killed last week by a car. However all the time she was with us (inside) she never wanted me to touch her. She did follow me around the house and was clearly very happy to be with us, but no touching nor picking up. Since last night I adopted an other little cat. Maybe 4 weeks old. I dont know who her mother is. She just appeared at my door screaming for food. I washed her as she was quite dirty and she is hiding in the kitchen. She eats well and I just talk to her but let her get used to everything, including the other cats. I am sure that is a couple of weeks she will fit right in.
Aisha-Taweela