Yes, in many ways my life does, especially here when he earns the money. Why should I stay home all day and then expect him to manage the domestic side of things? I am not ashamed of this and I do not believe that women have to work to have a life. If you have an equal and loving marriage it doesn't matter who brings in the money and who doesn't. I used to earn more than him in the UK but the balance of our relationship was the same. I do not feel a lesser person by not working here, I am enjoying the break and am very grateful to him for giving me the time to enjoy other parts of life than work.