if you or your wife are angry about being stared at it sounds like you are walking around the mall waiting for someone to stare so that you can pounce on them. is your life really that boring? why aren't you engaged in conversation with your wife? if you don't walk around looking at them to check whether they're staring, they won't look at you...it's that simple.
if your wife is covered AbuAmerican, i imagine that they are staring because it's quite unusual to see a white male with a covered female but i could be wrong.
does this mean that if I as a white western female complain about Arab and Western men staring at me that they will be banned too...because as lifeisbeautiful says, men seem to have this in-built urge to check out women. however, i would not limit this to men from the subcontinent only...
we have actually banned our students from entering with mobile phones with cameras as they were taking photos of female students. we do not have any asian bachelors studying with us...so go figure!
so, what can be done to help? it would be more useful if we could come up with a solution. these people come here believing that they will have a good job, earn money to send home and to be able to live life as normal. do you think they would come here if they knew the real situation? do you not think that they would leave the country if they were allowed to?
if you or your wife are angry about being stared at it sounds like you are walking around the mall waiting for someone to stare so that you can pounce on them. is your life really that boring? why aren't you engaged in conversation with your wife? if you don't walk around looking at them to check whether they're staring, they won't look at you...it's that simple.
if your wife is covered AbuAmerican, i imagine that they are staring because it's quite unusual to see a white male with a covered female but i could be wrong.
does this mean that if I as a white western female complain about Arab and Western men staring at me that they will be banned too...because as lifeisbeautiful says, men seem to have this in-built urge to check out women. however, i would not limit this to men from the subcontinent only...
we have actually banned our students from entering with mobile phones with cameras as they were taking photos of female students. we do not have any asian bachelors studying with us...so go figure!
so, what can be done to help? it would be more useful if we could come up with a solution. these people come here believing that they will have a good job, earn money to send home and to be able to live life as normal. do you think they would come here if they knew the real situation? do you not think that they would leave the country if they were allowed to?