but after i had my 1st child i settled as a fulltime housewife and mother...now ive got 2 kids. my hands are tied and always busy at home. being a fulltime housewife and mother is the type of "career" wherein you don't get paid, no days off, no vacation or sick leaves, no overtime pay and no resignation...but pls don't condemn me for i am happy personally attending to the needs of my husband and kids...so for me, hats off to fulltime housewives and moms!!!