As with all things in a marriage / relationship, everything is ok IF THE PARTNER DOESN'T OBJECT.

Seeing as she did object then he was in the wrong.

Especially the taking photos while she is asleep thing.
That is just wierd.

Nothing wrong in my opinion in trying to wake your partnet up in this way, but I would have given up if she never awoke before I would go the whole hog and mount her.

He needs to brush up on his skills rather than just taking for his own satisfaction.

I think she could have dealt with this in another way instead of taking it court though.

Maybe she could have fitted a mouse trap to the hem of her nightie?

Call me Maninibat!