I see your point but not everyone goes anbout it that way. What about those who take a second wife without starting a relationship? I have friends who have second wives and when they decided to marry again they went inquired if there were any Muslim women who were looking to get married, they went about it the Islamic way and both women were informed during the entire process.

I think at the end of the day, we just have 2 completely different opinions on the subject. I think we'll have to agree to respectfully disagree. Otherwise we'll keep going in circles.

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