I know this post will get shot down by all the ladies but I'll give it the old college try. I was listening to the quran channel from Saudia Arabia last week. There was a program talking about the issues that affect the country. On this particular day that issue was about women who aren't able to marry for what ever reason (many reasons were listed but they aren't directly related to my point). The presenter of the show was interviewing a man who had a 70 year old aunt who never married because she didn't want to marry from her own tribe. The man said he asked his aunt she felt about not being able to be married. She told him that she reached a point where she was so lonely and desperate she would have married a DOG if there was any way it could have been made halaal!!!!
I understand that most non Muslims won't be able to relate to what I'm saying. I'm not mad at ya. So to my Muslim brothers and sisters out there remember that Allah has blessed many of us to be married. We should not forget the status of women like the one mentioned earlier. So if a Muslim man has the ability to be just and can take financially take care of more than one woman this benefits the whole of Muslim society. Zina is haraam, so if some men didn't have more than 1 wife that would leave millions of women in a state of forced celibacy. So I ask all the married Muslim women would you like that for yourselves? If not, then remeber your sisters who are in such a condition.
Lastly, we as Muslim men have to fear Allah. We have been in some cases down right trifling to our wives may Allah forgive us. Don't we see that the our behavior has caused many Muslim women to hate polygeny? So if we expect our women to be patient with polygeny, we have to step up to the pump and handle our business. May Allah make us better husbands. Ameen.
I'm sorry the post was so long. I'll try to be more contrite (school word) in the future.
"I don't think so. Homey don't play dat."
Homey Da Clown
I know this post will get shot down by all the ladies but I'll give it the old college try. I was listening to the quran channel from Saudia Arabia last week. There was a program talking about the issues that affect the country. On this particular day that issue was about women who aren't able to marry for what ever reason (many reasons were listed but they aren't directly related to my point). The presenter of the show was interviewing a man who had a 70 year old aunt who never married because she didn't want to marry from her own tribe. The man said he asked his aunt she felt about not being able to be married. She told him that she reached a point where she was so lonely and desperate she would have married a DOG if there was any way it could have been made halaal!!!!
I understand that most non Muslims won't be able to relate to what I'm saying. I'm not mad at ya. So to my Muslim brothers and sisters out there remember that Allah has blessed many of us to be married. We should not forget the status of women like the one mentioned earlier. So if a Muslim man has the ability to be just and can take financially take care of more than one woman this benefits the whole of Muslim society. Zina is haraam, so if some men didn't have more than 1 wife that would leave millions of women in a state of forced celibacy. So I ask all the married Muslim women would you like that for yourselves? If not, then remeber your sisters who are in such a condition.
Lastly, we as Muslim men have to fear Allah. We have been in some cases down right trifling to our wives may Allah forgive us. Don't we see that the our behavior has caused many Muslim women to hate polygeny? So if we expect our women to be patient with polygeny, we have to step up to the pump and handle our business. May Allah make us better husbands. Ameen.
I'm sorry the post was so long. I'll try to be more contrite (school word) in the future.
"I don't think so. Homey don't play dat."
Homey Da Clown