Qatari did not introduce the 'selective visibility' clause into this site properly.
It's not as if some will be able to see something, and others won't. If I write something, it's there for evverybody to see and read, no matter how OFFENSIVE it may be.

My previous post (put in simple English) read, if you're so happy and contented with your married life, why did you post what you posted?
Were you trained too hard as a child? Do you still get nightmares of all the lashing and firing? Has it got embedded in your psyche?
POOR PEPPERMINT!!!