dont give me this crap that you know her in person on a forum....many people dont know others in "real life" and choose to stay this way...this " but I've met her" means nothing on a forum and should not be mentioned...AS IT IS CYPER WORLD....no wonder why people were getting pissed at not being allowed to attend soical gatherings...you go on and on about "how you know this person and that person" which is fine but carry on when naturally people want to join...seriously...go figure...