Um ok...so yes I guess if you want to hear it then you're wife is wonderfully subserviant and she lives only for you and being barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen. And obviously she is a thousand times better then Western women, who are arrogant divas, because she (lol) got a gem like you. There you happy now?
Isn't this comment a great example of what you said I was doing? Hmmm. I know you will say you were only being sarcastic to make your point but you need to lay off the hater ade! Might I also suggest a 12 step program at haters anonymous. However I can see how my original post makes it seem like I was instigating so my bad.
Anyway there is a difference between being a diva and being independent. My wife (who is an American Muslimah) works, shares her opinions yet she isn't a diva. So my posts weren't intended as a damning judgement of western women. I respect any woman from any part of the world who is holdin it down and taking care of her business. So we should accordingly not assume that just because Asian women appear to be more docile, they are just doormats for their husbands.
My beef is that certain women in response to the wrongs of the past have taken a stance that makes them no better then the men they accuse of are responding to. In reality Allah created us to be in need of each other. Any reasonable man won't be complete without a woman and vice verse. So if we all were more concerned about how to please our own spouses, and stopped hatin on other people's relationships we would all be happier.
Um ok...so yes I guess if you want to hear it then you're wife is wonderfully subserviant and she lives only for you and being barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen. And obviously she is a thousand times better then Western women, who are arrogant divas, because she (lol) got a gem like you. There you happy now?
Isn't this comment a great example of what you said I was doing? Hmmm. I know you will say you were only being sarcastic to make your point but you need to lay off the hater ade! Might I also suggest a 12 step program at haters anonymous. However I can see how my original post makes it seem like I was instigating so my bad.
Anyway there is a difference between being a diva and being independent. My wife (who is an American Muslimah) works, shares her opinions yet she isn't a diva. So my posts weren't intended as a damning judgement of western women. I respect any woman from any part of the world who is holdin it down and taking care of her business. So we should accordingly not assume that just because Asian women appear to be more docile, they are just doormats for their husbands.
My beef is that certain women in response to the wrongs of the past have taken a stance that makes them no better then the men they accuse of are responding to. In reality Allah created us to be in need of each other. Any reasonable man won't be complete without a woman and vice verse. So if we all were more concerned about how to please our own spouses, and stopped hatin on other people's relationships we would all be happier.