Tigasin, you just confirmed what I am saying - it is about the hosts attitude.

And yes, I have a maid, who is not a live in, but comes everyday.
And I can tell you. She wouldn't want to leave. She loves my kid, she likes me, and she is treated well.

I don't ban her from having a mobile, I let her call her home from my computer because Qtel is very expensive, she eats dinner at the table with me, and if she wants to have breaks during the day, she knows she is free to do that.

Kismet