And I also think that, when the ones who attend the gatherings are involved in any debates some, who don't go to the meetings, tend to accuse those who do of backing each other up - irrespective of the fact that they may just happen to hold similar opinions, whether they had met or not!

I would, personally, find it offensive if I was accused of being in a 'clique' and therefore had no opinion of my own and that I follow like some sheep! (not that I can recall anyone ever saying that of me, but have seen it said of others).

Am off to the shops now .... laters all!