PM ,as you probably know,parental kids relations are too complex to be reviewed in a website without all the information. i never comment on such threads without knowing both sides of the story.who knows the parents story?there are too numerous factors to be considered here.

i started drinking with my dad and still do. there is a saying in my local language""vellam adichal vayati kedakenam"" .....which means what you drink better stay in your tummy.in other words,know your limits.when on occasion i have crossed someone has been there to guide me back.
i always try to look at the big picture.

do it right - the first time!