Yes, it is interesting to hear the experiences and views of people. It is an interesting subject that I intend to research further, possibly even write a paper on. That was my intention when posting this forum topic, to gather info and discuss experiences. I wasn't asking for sympathy or advice on my particular experience, it was years ago. 

Incidently, the guy who bullied me once punched me in the face and threatened to do it again many times so was unable to always ignore his bullying. And the fact that I didn't go to the police can tell you just how terrified I was of him. 

 Thanks to everyone for sharing your experiences and opinions, it's sad to know that this problem is so common but also good to think that people are able to talk about such personal issues on QL. It just goes to show what a good community QL is.