As a male, my two cents worth are the same as before-virginity is of zero, zip, and nada importance.  Confident, relaxed, and with a state playfulness in the sack-those are the qualities-and they're all in the mind, got nothing to do with biological functions.   Those qualities come with age and experience-which kind of works against virginity....Give me a confident and fun 40 year old over a 20 year old flat belly any day of the week.