spring to mind (where this thread is concerned, anyway)

And Swissy I guess my first choice would be my partner, although I'm not sure he'd really understand and my second choice would be my older sister, although I never agree with her advice anyway! lol

Guess that means that I, for one, would have to bounce ideas of all and sundry until I came to my own conclusions as to how I'd sort out the problem.

I sometimes think that's what we all do, usually, anyway.  Deep down we know the answer and can't see it until we use others as our sounding boards.

:D