"that's why women differ, when we love...we love with our mind, heart and soul...that's why we hurt the more when we give more".

 

I think that when a man is 'hurt' he hurts much deeper than women realise. 

He may not go into floods of tears or spend weeks tormenting others with how upset he is because those symptoms are on the surface and not how the male, usually, reacts to hurt.

Well, that's what I think.  Some women are harder than some men and vice versa.

No-one can ever really know how deeply another person feels hurt.  It's a very personal emotion.

 

As to:

  1. How well does the other person treat them? MUTUAL (who wants to be walked over)
  2. What is the level of attraction occurring? MUTUAL (otherwise wouldn't be together in the first place)
  3. How good is he/she in bed? MUTUAL (chemistry, my dear Watson)
  4. How strong is the emotional connection? MUTUAL (ability to speak when not copulating)
  5. How good of a provider is the guy is? (applicable to the ladies only) SHOULDN'T REALLY COME INTO THE EQUATION IF THE PREVIOUS IS MUTUAL

and if it isn't mutual then 1,2,3,and 4 should at least be on a scale of 60/40 -  any less and you may as well forget it.

oops it's after 10.00, and I'm dangerous again *mad laugh*