Ahhh, the definition of blunt can be taken either way...personally am never....well almost never am being rude!!

For me I guess, I was at the top of my career etc etc and in this modern world, your job is part of who you are and a was a housewife, doing very well at both but now a part is missing. I guess that is what the crux of my initial posting was about. How to go beyond that in another country without all the comforts of home

 I may be blonde but I am wise

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