First of all, whatever you do, make sure you have your marriage certificate. If you are not married you could get in to trouble. Second, I know that you are asking for practical advice, but I just wanted to say this: Please don't be put off by the outpatient experience at the hospital, it can be a little scary the first time so if you can, take someone with you. Once you get used to the ways of the place, it really is an exceptionally good hospital, clean and full of highly qualified medical staff. You will be safe there. Good luck