It is about respect and doing the right thing and really being honest in a relationship. You are looking too deep with a shallow mind.  It is not about race, creed or ethnicity.  I use the word respect again and that comes with maturity. When I choose someone to love it is about how the feel about themselves, and about how they treat me.  Treating parents with respect is a big thing too. If I were looking at you for instance, I wouldn't see your race, care where you lived or your materialistic life style or how much money you made or where you were from.  I would be looking at your heart.