Syamsat, if you think that your well meaning and caring 'take the control' word will somehow jerk all the women into reality all of a sudden since they are azzholes uptil now please think again. All these abusers are their husbands/fathers/brothers whom she trusts blindly. If a woman just walks out of something the abuse does not stop neither is she aware what she is into until it happens. As I said you have to be a woman to understand it.