But seriously, its sad and unfortunate that a lot of the times ppl do look down on you whether they mean to or not...its an instant reaction thing...maybe it would help make you feel better to perhaps put yourself in that person's shoes...noone wants to feel "lesser" of a person...to respond with "inshallah" because you dont know what else to say and then conceal it with a fake smile...I dont know, if only people would take the time to see things from someone else's perspective, to empathize, try to understand them then maybe they wouldnt be so quick to jump to conclusions... just to be clear I dont mean you RR when I say this :)